MEMBERS OF GOD'S HOUSEHOLD
By Rev. Samuel Arimoro
MAIN TEXT: Ephesians 2:11-22
KEY VERSE: Ephesians 2:19 (KJV) — “Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the household of God;”
SUPPORTING TEXTS: John 1:11-13; Romans 8:14-17; Galatians 3:26-29; Ephesians 2:13-22; 1 Corinthians 12:12-27; 1 Peter 2:9-10; Hebrews 10:24-25; Ephesians 4:1-6.
DESCRIPTION: This message explains the privilege, identity, responsibilities, and spiritual blessings of belonging to God's household through faith in Jesus Christ.
INTRODUCTION
Every family has a place of belonging, a shared identity, privileges, and responsibilities. Members of a family are expected to care for one another, protect one another, and contribute to the welfare of the household. Although earthly families differ in size, background, and resources, the principle of belonging remains important to human life. In the same way, God has established a spiritual family in which those who believe in Jesus Christ are welcomed as His children.
In Ephesians 2, the Apostle Paul explains the remarkable transformation that took place through the death of Jesus Christ. The Gentiles, who were once alienated from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers to the covenants of promise, were brought near by the blood of Christ. Jesus broke down the wall of hostility and reconciled both Jews and Gentiles to God in one body. Therefore, those who were once strangers and foreigners are now fellow citizens with God's people and members of His household.
Being a member of God's household is more than belonging to a local church or having one's name on a membership register. It begins with reconciliation to God through Jesus Christ and is expressed through fellowship with His people, obedience to His Word, service, holiness, and love. Every believer must understand this privilege and fulfil the responsibilities that accompany it. God has not called us to remain isolated spiritual individuals; He has brought us into a family where we can grow together and serve His purpose.
1. MEMBERSHIP IN GOD'S HOUSEHOLD BEGINS WITH SALVATION
No one becomes a member of God's household merely by birth, nationality, family tradition, church attendance, or religious position. Spiritual membership begins when a person receives Jesus Christ and enters into a restored relationship with God. Through Christ, sinners are forgiven, reconciled to God, and given a new identity.
This truth removes boasting and spiritual pride. Nobody can claim to have earned a place in God's family. We are welcomed because of God's grace, received through faith in Jesus Christ. Therefore, our confidence must rest in the Saviour rather than in our personal achievements.
a) We Must Receive Jesus Christ (John 1:12) – “But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name.” Receiving Christ means trusting Him as Saviour and Lord. Church attendance and religious activities cannot replace a personal response of faith to the gospel. Those who receive Christ are given the privilege of becoming God's children.
b) We Are Saved by God's Grace (Ephesians 2:8-9) – “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” Salvation is God's gift, not a reward for human performance. Our place in His household is not purchased through good deeds, religious contributions, or personal reputation. We receive salvation by grace through faith, and this should produce humility and gratitude.
c) We Are Reconciled to God Through Christ (Romans 5:1) – “Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” Sin had disrupted humanity's relationship with God, but Jesus provided the way of reconciliation. Through faith in Him, believers are justified and brought into peace with God. Membership in God's household rests on this restored relationship.
d) We Become New Creations in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17) – “Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.” Salvation brings a new spiritual identity and begins a process of transformation. A member of God's household should not deliberately remain in the sinful attitudes and practices of the former life. God's grace teaches us to live differently.
Biblical Example: The Philippian Jailer (Acts 16:25-34)
When an earthquake opened the prison doors, the Philippian jailer feared that the prisoners had escaped. Paul and Silas assured him that everyone was still there. The jailer then asked what he must do to be saved. They directed him to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and he and his household heard the Word and were baptised. His experience demonstrates the central place of faith in Christ in receiving salvation.
2. MEMBERS OF GOD'S HOUSEHOLD HAVE A NEW IDENTITY
When a person becomes a member of God's household, that person's deepest spiritual identity changes. The believer is no longer defined solely by past mistakes, social background, family history, or the opinions of others. In Christ, we are children of God and members of a spiritual family that extends across nations and generations.
Understanding this identity helps believers overcome rejection, inferiority, and spiritual insecurity. It also reminds us that our identity carries responsibility. We must live in a way that reflects the character of the Father to whom we belong.
a) We Are Children of God (Romans 8:14) – “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.” The Holy Spirit works in believers to lead them in the ways of God. Being God's child is not merely a title to claim; it is a relationship that should shape our conduct. We must learn to follow the Spirit's leading and submit to the teaching of Scripture.
b) We Are No Longer Strangers (Ephesians 2:19) – Paul declares that believers are “no more strangers and foreigners.” In the context of Ephesians, this specifically describes Gentile believers who have been brought into God's people through Christ. They no longer stand outside the privileges of God's redeemed community. This truth assures us that all who are in Christ have a genuine place among His people.
c) We Are Heirs of God's Promise (Romans 8:17) – “And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together.” God's children have the hope of sharing in the inheritance He has promised. This does not mean that believers will never experience suffering. It means that present trials cannot cancel the future glory God has prepared for those who belong to Christ.
d) We Must Reflect Our Father's Character (Ephesians 5:1-2) – Paul calls believers to be followers of God as dear children and to walk in love, as Christ loved us. A child often reflects the values and conduct of the family. In the same way, members of God's household should demonstrate love, holiness, truthfulness, mercy, and forgiveness in their daily lives.
Biblical Example: Zacchaeus (Luke 19:1-10)
Zacchaeus was a chief tax collector whose occupation had made him unpopular among many people. When Jesus visited his home, Zacchaeus responded with repentance and a willingness to make restitution. Jesus declared that salvation had come to his house. His encounter with Christ changed his priorities and behaviour, illustrating how salvation gives a person a new direction in life.
3. MEMBERS OF GOD'S HOUSEHOLD BELONG TO ONE SPIRITUAL FAMILY
God's household is made up of people from different backgrounds who have been united through Jesus Christ. In Ephesians 2, Paul emphasises the reconciliation of Jews and Gentiles. Their former divisions were not allowed to remain the foundation of their relationship because Christ had made peace through His cross.
The Church must therefore be more than a gathering of people who happen to worship in the same building. It should be a community where believers recognise their shared identity in Christ, respect one another, and work together to fulfil God's purpose. Our unity does not require everyone to have the same personality or cultural background; it requires us to live under the lordship of Christ.
a) We Are One Body in Christ (1 Corinthians 12:12) – Paul explains that just as the body is one and has many members, so also is Christ. Each believer has a place and function within the body. No member should consider himself or herself unnecessary, and no member should despise others because their gifts differ. We need one another to function effectively as God's household.
b) We Must Reject Partiality (James 2:1) – James warns believers against showing respect of persons while professing faith in Jesus Christ. It is wrong to honour people merely because of wealth, influence, appearance, or social status while neglecting others. Members of God's household must treat people with dignity and fairness.
c) We Must Preserve the Unity of the Spirit (Ephesians 4:3) – Paul urges believers to endeavour to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Unity requires humility, patience, forgiveness, and a willingness to resolve disagreements in a godly manner. Gossip, tribalism, jealousy, and personal ambition can damage the fellowship Christ has established. We must actively pursue peace.
d) We Must Love One Another (John 13:34-35) – Jesus commanded His disciples to love one another as He had loved them. He said that their love would identify them as His disciples. The Church's unity becomes visible when believers show practical care, bear one another's burdens, and treat each other with genuine compassion.
Biblical Example: The Church at Antioch (Acts 11:19-26)
The church at Antioch developed as believers from different backgrounds received the gospel and gathered together. Barnabas encouraged the believers to remain faithful to the Lord, and he later brought Saul to help teach them. The disciples were first called Christians at Antioch. Their experience illustrates the formation of a growing Christian community united by faith in Christ.
4. MEMBERS OF GOD'S HOUSEHOLD MUST GROW SPIRITUALLY
God does not bring people into His household for them to remain spiritually immature. Just as children are expected to grow in understanding and responsibility, believers are called to grow in the knowledge of Christ, the understanding of Scripture, and the practice of Christian character.
Spiritual growth requires intentional commitment. We must study God's Word, pray, participate in Christian fellowship, receive sound teaching, and obey what the Lord reveals. We should not measure maturity only by how long someone has attended church, how loudly that person prays, or how much religious knowledge the person possesses. True maturity is increasingly reflected in Christlike character and faithful obedience.
a) Grow Through the Word of God (1 Peter 2:2) – “As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby.” God's Word nourishes spiritual life and helps believers develop discernment. Members of God's household should develop a hunger for Scripture and allow it to correct their thinking, strengthen their faith, and guide their decisions.
b) Grow Through Prayer (Colossians 4:2) – “Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving.” Prayer strengthens our dependence on God and keeps our hearts attentive to His will. A believer who neglects prayer may become spiritually weak and less sensitive to God's direction. We should develop a consistent prayer life rather than pray only when problems arise.
c) Grow Through Christian Fellowship (Hebrews 10:24-25) – Scripture encourages believers to consider how to provoke one another to love and good works and not forsake assembling together. Fellowship gives us opportunities to learn, encourage one another, receive correction, and serve. Isolation can deprive believers of important support and opportunities for growth.
d) Grow in the Grace and Knowledge of Christ (2 Peter 3:18) – “But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.” Spiritual maturity is a lifelong process. We should continue learning about Christ and becoming more like Him in our attitudes, relationships, decisions, and service.
Biblical Example: The Early Believers in Jerusalem (Acts 2:42)
The early believers continued steadfastly in the apostles' doctrine, fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayers. Their spiritual life was marked by regular learning, worship, and shared commitment. Their example teaches us that growth in God's household requires continued devotion to the Word, prayer, and fellowship.
5. MEMBERS OF GOD'S HOUSEHOLD MUST SERVE ONE ANOTHER
Membership in God's household comes with responsibility. We are not saved merely to sit, receive, and observe. God has given every believer opportunities to serve, encourage others, and contribute to the work of His kingdom. Some may serve publicly, while others serve quietly, but every act of faithful service matters to God.
A healthy church is not built by the efforts of one person alone. Pastors, teachers, worship leaders, intercessors, ushers, administrators, givers, and other members all have important roles. When each person serves with humility and faithfulness, the whole body becomes stronger.
a) Use Your Gifts to Serve Others (1 Peter 4:10) – “As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.” Every believer has received abilities, opportunities, or spiritual gifts that can benefit others. We should not bury what God has entrusted to us through fear, laziness, or comparison. Instead, we must use our gifts faithfully for the good of God's household.
b) Serve with Humility (Mark 10:43-45) – Jesus taught that greatness among His followers is expressed through service rather than domination. He Himself came not to be ministered unto but to minister and give His life as a ransom for many. Members of God's household must reject pride and learn to serve without demanding recognition.
c) Bear One Another's Burdens (Galatians 6:2) – “Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” Christian love becomes practical when we help people who are struggling. We can support others through prayer, wise counsel, encouragement, material assistance where possible, and compassionate presence. We should not assume that every person must carry every burden alone.
d) Be Faithful in Small Responsibilities (Luke 16:10) – Jesus taught that the person who is faithful in that which is least will also be faithful in much. We should not despise small assignments in God's house. Whether the task is visible or hidden, we must carry it out with honesty, diligence, and a desire to honour the Lord.
Biblical Example: Dorcas (Acts 9:36-39)
Dorcas, also called Tabitha, was known for good works and acts of charity. When she died, the widows showed Peter the garments she had made, demonstrating the practical impact of her service. Her life reminds us that faithful acts of kindness can strengthen God's people and leave a lasting testimony.
6. MEMBERS OF GOD'S HOUSEHOLD MUST LIVE IN HOLINESS AND OBEDIENCE
The privilege of belonging to God's household must never become an excuse for careless living. God's grace welcomes sinners who come to Him through Christ, but that grace also transforms them. As members of His family, we are called to live in a manner that honours His name and reflects His holiness.
Holiness is not an attempt to purchase God's acceptance. Rather, it is the response of those who have received His grace and desire to please Him. Our lives should show that we belong to God through the way we speak, conduct business, handle relationships, respond to temptation, and treat others.
a) Be Holy in Your Conduct (1 Peter 1:15-16) – God calls His people to be holy in all manner of conduct because He is holy. Holiness involves turning away from sin and learning to live according to God's revealed will. We cannot claim to honour the Father while deliberately embracing practices that contradict His Word.
b) Put Away the Old Way of Life (Ephesians 4:22-24) – Paul instructs believers to put off the old man, be renewed in the spirit of their minds, and put on the new man created in righteousness and true holiness. Spiritual transformation involves rejecting destructive habits and allowing God to reshape our thinking and behaviour. We must cooperate with His work in us.
c) Walk in Love and Forgiveness (Colossians 3:12-13) – Believers are called to put on compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and longsuffering, bearing with one another and forgiving one another. These qualities should be evident in God's household. Our relationships must reflect the mercy we have received from the Lord.
d) Obey God's Word (James 1:22) – “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.” Listening to sermons without applying Scripture can produce the appearance of maturity without genuine transformation. Members of God's household must put the Word into practice through their decisions, conduct, and relationships.
Biblical Example: Joseph in Potiphar's House (Genesis 39:7-12)
When Potiphar's wife tried to entice Joseph to commit sexual sin, Joseph refused and asked how he could do such wickedness and sin against God. He chose obedience even when it brought personal hardship. Joseph's example teaches members of God's household to remain faithful to God when temptation comes, even when obedience is costly.
CONCLUSION
Being a member of God's household is a great privilege made possible through Jesus Christ. We were once alienated from God because of sin, but the blood of Jesus has brought us near and reconciled us to the Father. Through faith in Christ, we become part of God's spiritual family, sharing a new identity, a common hope, and a responsibility to live as His people. We are not meant to remain strangers, isolated believers, or passive church attendees; we are called to belong, grow, serve, and mature together.
Therefore, appreciate your place in God's household and live in a way that honours your heavenly Father. Grow in His Word, maintain a consistent prayer life, love your fellow believers, reject division, serve faithfully, and pursue holiness. Help make your church a place where people experience the truth and love of Christ. Remember that God has brought you into His family by grace, and He calls you to extend that same gospel invitation to others who need to be reconciled to Him.
PRAYER POINTS
1. Father, thank You for saving me through Jesus Christ and bringing me into Your household, in Jesus name.
2. Lord, help me to understand and appreciate my identity as Your child and a member of Your spiritual family, in Jesus name.
3. Holy Spirit, help me to grow in the Word, prayer, and fellowship with other believers, in Jesus name.
4. Father, remove every spirit of pride, prejudice, jealousy, and division from my heart, in Jesus name.
5. Lord, give me grace to love, forgive, and encourage fellow members of Your household, in Jesus name.
6. Father, reveal the gifts and abilities You have given me and help me to use them faithfully in Your service, in Jesus name.
7. Lord, strengthen our church in unity, holiness, sound doctrine, and genuine Christian fellowship, in Jesus name.
8. Father, help me to reject every sinful habit and live a life that brings honour to Your name, in Jesus name.
9. Lord, make me an instrument of reconciliation who helps others discover salvation and belonging through Jesus Christ, in Jesus name.
10. Father, establish me firmly in Your household and help me to remain faithful to You throughout my life, in Jesus name.
PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS
1. You will grow in the assurance that through Jesus Christ you belong to God, and you will not allow your past to define your identity in Him.
2. You will become increasingly rooted in God's Word, strengthened through prayer, and established in healthy Christian fellowship.
3. You will experience growth in spiritual maturity, and your life will increasingly reflect the character of your heavenly Father.
4. You will not be an agent of division in God's household; you will promote unity, forgiveness, humility, and genuine love among believers.
5. You will discover and use your gifts faithfully, and your service will contribute to the strengthening of God's Church.
6. You will receive grace to overcome temptation and walk in holiness, integrity, and obedience to the Word of God.
7. You will become a source of encouragement to those who are weak, discouraged, lonely, or struggling in their faith.
8. You will grow in compassion and wisdom, and your conduct will help others see the love and truth of Jesus Christ.
9. You will become a faithful witness of the gospel, helping others find reconciliation with God and a place among His people.
10. You will remain steadfast in Christ, fulfil your responsibilities in God's household, and continue to grow in grace until the end.
