HOW TO BUILD A STRONG CHRISTIAN HOME

HOW TO BUILD A STRONG CHRISTIAN HOME

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Matthew 7:24-25

Key Verse: “Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock.” (Matthew 7:24)

Supporting Texts: Psalm 127:1, Joshua 24:15, Colossians 3:16,17, Ephesians 5:21-25

Description:
A strong Christian home is built on Christ as the foundation, maintained by prayer, love, godly parenting, and obedience to God’s Word.

INTRODUCTION:
A home is more than just a house; it is the spiritual, emotional, and moral foundation where destinies are nurtured. God designed the Christian home to reflect His kingdom on earth, where love, faith, and holiness are preserved for generations. A strong Christian home becomes a fortress against the attacks of the enemy.

Sadly, many homes today are weakened by compromise, worldliness, lack of prayer, and disunity. Such homes easily crumble when faced with life’s storms. However, when a home is built on Christ—the solid Rock—it cannot be shaken, no matter the storms that arise.

To build a strong Christian home, we must intentionally follow God’s principles, embrace His Word, and daily invite His presence to rule in every aspect of family life.

1. CHRIST AS THE FOUNDATION OF THE HOME
Every lasting home must be built upon Christ, the Rock.

a) Christ as the builder (Psalm 127:1)
Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labour in vain.

b) Commitment to serving God (Joshua 24:15)
Families must make a covenant decision to serve God.

c) Living by the Word (Colossians 3:16)
The Word of God must dwell richly in the home.

d) Rejecting worldly foundations (1 Corinthians 3:11)
No foundation can stand except that which is laid on Christ.

Biblical Example: Joshua’s household choosing to serve the Lord (Joshua 24:15).

2. PRAYER AND WORSHIP IN THE HOME
A praying family is a powerful family.

a) The altar of family devotion (Genesis 12:7-8)
Abraham built altars of worship that strengthened his household.

b) Prayer as protection (Job 1:5,10)
Job continually prayed and interceded for his family.

c) Worship invites God’s presence (Psalm 22:3)
Praise establishes God’s habitation in the home.

d) Spiritual unity in prayer (Matthew 18:19-20)
When families pray together, heaven responds.

Biblical Example: Cornelius’ household given to prayer and devotion (Acts 10:1-4).

3. LOVE, RESPECT, AND UNITY IN MARRIAGE
Strong homes are built when spouses walk in love and unity.

a) Husbands loving sacrificially (Ephesians 5:25)
Christlike love strengthens the marriage bond.

b) Wives submitting in reverence (Ephesians 5:22)
Submission is honour, not weakness.

c) Mutual respect and understanding (1 Peter 3:7)
Marriage thrives on honour and mutual respect.

d) Resolving conflicts biblically (Matthew 18:15)
Forgiveness and communication maintain unity.

Biblical Example: Priscilla and Aquila’s united ministry (Acts 18:2, 26).

4. GODLY PARENTING AND DISCIPLESHIP
Children are arrows in God’s hand and must be raised in His ways.

a) Training in God’s Word (Proverbs 22:6)
Parents must intentionally raise children in godliness.

b) Teaching by example (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)
Parents must model the Word in daily living.

c) Balancing love and discipline (Ephesians 6:4)
Discipline must be firm but loving.

d) Protecting children from ungodly influence (Psalm 127:3-5)
Children must be guided away from corrupt environments.

Biblical Example: Timothy raised by Lois and Eunice (2 Timothy 1:5).

5. PRESENCE OF GOD IN THE HOME
No home can be strong without God’s abiding presence.

a) God’s presence brings peace (Exodus 33:14)
His presence guarantees rest and safety.

b) His presence preserves in trials (Daniel 3:25)
Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were exempted in the fire.

c) The presence of God brings joy (Psalm 16:11)
Fulness of joy is found where God dwells.

d) Hosting God’s presence through holiness (Psalm 24:3-4)
Only the pure in heart can attract His presence.

Biblical Example: Obed-Edom’s household blessed by God’s presence (2 Samuel 6:11).

CONCLUSION:
Building a strong Christian home requires intentionality. It is not automatic but demands that families submit to Christ as the foundation, maintain a life of prayer, cultivate love and unity in marriage, raise children in godliness, and consistently host God’s presence.

Such homes become a fortress of faith, unshaken by the storms of life, and a testimony of God’s glory to their generation. Every believer must rise and build their home on Christ so it can stand the test of time and eternity.

PRAYER POINTS:
1. Lord, establish my home on the solid foundation of Christ.
2. Father, let Your presence never depart from my household.
3. Help me to raise my children in Your fear and Word.
4. Every strange influence against my home, be destroyed in Jesus’ name.
5. Lord, strengthen the bond of love and unity in my marriage.
6. Let the altar of prayer and worship in my home never go cold.
7. Father, preserve my household from the corruption of this generation.
8. Give me wisdom to resolve conflicts in my home Your way.
9. Lord, make my home a channel of blessings to others.
10. My family shall serve the Lord from generation to generation.

PROPHETIC DECLARATIONS:
1. Your home shall be built on Christ, the Solid Rock!
2. No storm of life shall bring your household down!
3. The presence of God will continually dwell in your family!
4. Your children shall grow in wisdom, grace, and the fear of God!
5. Your marriage shall be strengthened with love and unity!
6. Your household will not fall into the trap of the enemy!
7. The altar of prayer in your home shall keep burning!
8. Every satanic attack against your home is destroyed in Jesus’ name!
9. Your family shall be preserved as a light to this generation!
10. God’s blessings will overflow in your home in abundance!